Comments on: The Total Transformation Program http://mommadjane.com/total-transformation-program Derailed Control Freak Wed, 23 May 2012 15:18:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Cindy C. http://mommadjane.com/total-transformation-program/comment-page-1#comment-3258 Cindy C. Tue, 30 Mar 2010 05:07:10 +0000 http://mommadjane.com/?p=4338#comment-3258 Great tips from the program. I find I am a much different parent now than before the tantrums, etc. started. There are still zero tolerance issues (violence to siblings, animals, etc.) but I definitely react much less with this one and, when I can tell it's epilepsy related (meds or otherwise), I tend to talk things out more. We just had to find our new normal, right? I also learned a lot when I worked w/special needs kid and adults in college. I could tell the parents who allowed the "free pass" and those who didn't. These were kids who had many more issues than we have, so I knew it could be done. I'm sure it might get harder before it gets better, but I can't wait to see how this all impacts your family for the better. Great tips from the program. I find I am a much different parent now than before the tantrums, etc. started. There are still zero tolerance issues (violence to siblings, animals, etc.) but I definitely react much less with this one and, when I can tell it’s epilepsy related (meds or otherwise), I tend to talk things out more. We just had to find our new normal, right? I also learned a lot when I worked w/special needs kid and adults in college. I could tell the parents who allowed the “free pass” and those who didn’t. These were kids who had many more issues than we have, so I knew it could be done. I’m sure it might get harder before it gets better, but I can’t wait to see how this all impacts your family for the better.

]]> By: Erica Mueller http://mommadjane.com/total-transformation-program/comment-page-1#comment-3257 Erica Mueller Tue, 30 Mar 2010 01:41:14 +0000 http://mommadjane.com/?p=4338#comment-3257 I think we might need that in this house??? lol I do not have a special needs child, but I wonder sometimes if maybe *I* am special needs? Seriously. My favorite parenting book of all time, and one I re-read on a regular basis is Scream Free Parenting. It goes in line with the last point you talked about... not allowing them to train you. Not reacting to their bad attitudes in a way that escalates things. I have such a hard time remaining calm, especially when my nerves feel like a thread about to snap... .-= Erica Mueller´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/EricaMuellerOnline/~3/INHGFV2ELGI/" rel="nofollow">Why Attend a Blogging Conference?</a> =-. I think we might need that in this house??? lol I do not have a special needs child, but I wonder sometimes if maybe *I* am special needs? Seriously.

My favorite parenting book of all time, and one I re-read on a regular basis is Scream Free Parenting. It goes in line with the last point you talked about… not allowing them to train you. Not reacting to their bad attitudes in a way that escalates things. I have such a hard time remaining calm, especially when my nerves feel like a thread about to snap…
.-= Erica Mueller´s last blog ..Why Attend a Blogging Conference? =-.

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