As you know, I’m in New York City for the weekend. What I love most about the blogosphere is meeting all the fabulous bloggers to connect with and build friendships. Not long ago I stumbled upon Jennifer through twitter and realized we have a lot in common. Besides the fact we are both located in Texas, we both have a child who had a stroke in utero. The moment our babies suffered that stroke, our lives changed forever. I asked Jennifer to guest blog for me one day and this week I thought what better time then while I’m in NY?!
Enjoy…

Hello everyone, I am Jennifer from Jude; The Diary of a Baby and a Stroke and I will be your guest blogger for the day. When MommaDJane asked me to be a guest blogger, I was honored, but a bit nervous. I was unsure what to write about even though words seem to flow out on my blog. She suggested another viewpoint of a parent that has a child that suffered a stroke. I could write for days regarding my thoughts on in utero, and pediatric strokes, but I believe our sisterhood all has the same perspective. Our thought on the matter is that… well, strokes suck! No one gets pregnant with the anticipation that your child will have a vessel burst in his or her brain, and thus irreversible damage is caused. We all go through mourning periods, bargaining, and basically to me, it mimicked the steps I went through in grief.
When thrust into a life with a child facing a chronic illness you feel lost in a haze of depressing clouds. Yet if you dig deep enough, and you come to terms with what life has handed you, then you can find your way to sunshine again. I know I have a beautiful child that I love unconditionally. In Jude I see so much more than I probably would have if my pregnancy were perfect. He has taught me patience, understanding, and more about life than I ever thought I could know. I appreciate every little milestone he accomplishes, and even the smallest movements he makes. In turn I now also appreciate my daughter in ways I never did before. A simple laugh, a simple smile, a simple loving gesture becomes worth more than you could ever imagine.
My son has also taught me compassion for others, and to actually look at people who have issues, rather than look through them. I have learned that the disabled deserve our respect in ways I never would have understood before. So the next time you are walking down the street and you see a small child in an adaptive stroller, or wheel chair, look at them. It’s okay to wonder what happened to place them in that chair and to recognize how strong they are for fighting hard enough in life to be in that chair in the first place! Just take a second, offer a smile, and offer a bit of happiness.
Jennifer Ortiz
Baby Jude, The diary of a baby and a stroke
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Right now around the blogosphere you are most likely reading BlogHer ‘09 recap posts. Since I wasn’t able to make it to BlogHer this year and unfortunately missed out on all the great swag I heard about, I thought what better day to give away some swag myself!
I watched the Michael Buble ‘Meets Madison Square Garden’ DVD this week. First, to be honest, I’m not sure what I expected before watching the DVD. I hoped it would show some behind the scenes and I knew it was going to show some of the actual performance. I was very impressed. I have heard Michael Buble’s music before and have even watched him be interviewed on a few different talk shows. However, the DVD showed a ‘real’ side of him that I didn’t expect. There was several times I actually even laughed along with him while he was joking around with other members of his tour. I was really impressed to see him treating every member of his show as a loyal friend instead of being uptight or always professional. He seemed very down to earth and it even showed them playing pingpong and just enjoying life while having fun. He interacted with his audience during his live performance while even cracking jokes. That was one thing I didn’t expect out of him.
Michael Buble’s DVD also showed footage of his family being interviewed. His grandpa was a very important role in his life and he discussed how proud he was that Michael exceeded his expectations. You could see in his eyes how much Michael meant to him and the enjoyment he got from watching him perform at Madison Square Garden. Of course the same feelings showed through from Michael towards his grandpa.
Following his first #1 Pop album and his third platinum-plus disc, 2007’s Grammy® winning Call Me Irresponsible, singing sensation Michael Bublé returns to the stage with the live CD+DVD package Michael Bublé Meets Madison Square Garden. Featuring powerful performances of his hits ‘Everything,’ ‘Home’ and ‘Feeling Good,’ he brings the December 2008 concert at one of the most famous venues in entertainment history home to fans with Michael Bublé Meets Madison Square Garden.
I am excited to announce I get to give away not one but 5 copies of Michael Buble’s CD/DVD combo: Michael Buble Meets Madison Square Garden
How to Enter: (One entry per comment)
- Leave me a comment telling me what your favorite Michael Buble song is or which song you look most forward to hearing if you win {mine is Sway}
- Subscribe to MommaDJane via email and leave comment with email address
- Blog about this giveaway and link back to my post – leave permalink in comment
- Tweet this giveaway and leave permalink in comment
*Contest ends at midnight CST Thursday, Aug. 6th and winner will be randomly selected using random.org – Once winner is announced they have 48hours to claim prize – Valid way to be contacted must be left in entry comment*
All readers can visit the official Michael Buble Store and use coupon code ‘BubleMom15′ to receive 15% off entire order

I found this guest blogger through Mom Pack which I am a member of to promote my wahm businesses. Rebecca posted this in our yahoo group and I asked if I could share with my readers her post. So here it goes:
I think the term “stay at home mom” is offensive. As a previous poster
stated, it implies that we stay at home and do nothing.
When our parents were in school they had an organization called Future
Homemakers of America. They taught young women how to make a house
into a home; how to cook; how to sew; basically how to take care of
your family. I can definitely see where we need this in today’s
society. Just look at our children. They can’t even dress themselves,
walking around with their pants around their knees.
I am not a SAHM. I am a mother, a wife, a homemaker, nurse, chauffeur,
psychiatrist, referee, chef, volunteer, business owner,I can go on and
on. I AM NOT a SAHM.
By: Rebecca Marshall
Jordan Essentials I.R.
Well I hope you enjoyed Rebecca’s post about SAHMs. I had never thought of this point of view before but she made a good point! Check out her Jordan Essentials site!

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Back to School – Homeschool, That Is
by Vicki Arnold
www.SimplyVicki.com
The back to school season can be hectic for any student, whether homeschooled or traditionally schooled. Here are some tips to smooth the transition in your homeschool.
1. Look back and make notes on what worked. Most homeschool parents take some reflection time at the end of the school year, now is the time to pull out those notes and give your mind a refresher on the things you saw. The benefit of looking at this as the school year begins is that you will be able to immediately take action on your observations.
If this is your first year of homeschooling, take a look at how your child plays. Especially in the early years, your child learns through play. By noting his or her favorite games, you can gain insight into the way your child processes information.
If this is your first year of homeschooling after traditional schooling, talk to your child. Ask them what they liked best about school. One of the perks of homeschooling is the ability to build on these strengths.
2. Acknowledge what didn’t work. As important as working with techniques and books that grow your child is stopping things that aren’t working. Forcing you and your child to work through a workbook simply because you paid for it and don’t want to waste it, will get you nowhere. Sometimes the approach is wrong for one child, but right for another and sometimes the timing is simply wrong.
It is especially important to look at what is working for your child, not what you feel most comfortable teaching. The goal of homeschooling is your child’s success in his or her educational journey, not you.
3. Try something new for the new year. If your child participates in a library program, take your school work with you on those days. Or take your reading and writing to a quiet park. Sometimes a simple change in scenery is all you need to fuel the learning.
4. Find a year-long or semester-long project, something you can incorporate across the subject lines. Take advantage of that summer vacation you are planning and study about the local area, find things to do and interesting history facts. Or have your child journal weekly or daily about the things they are learning about.
Back to school doesn’t have to be stressful. Take all that energy and infuse your school year with it. Study something your child finds fascinating, find a way to work it into all subjects for a period of time. And above all, relax. You will find your routine.
I hope you enjoyed our guest blogger for today. You can find Vicki on her link listed above.

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